‘I keep cheating on my boyfriends and I don’t know why’

‘I keep cheating on my boyfriends and I don’t know why’

Dear Roe,

I have been in a relationship for four years and I really love my boyfriend but for some odd reason I have kissed three other guys so far. I feel really guilty. I cheated heavily on my ex in our last year together (we were together for four years too), but I lost my respect and love for him and now it feels like I’m repeating myself and my nonsense. I really love my boyfriend but I don’t understand why I kissed other men again. My boyfriend has called me names and insulted me but after I gave him an ultimatum he has stopped and we are going on well, but I feel horrible for having kissed other guys. I don’t know how to feel.

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